Im not super big into Dubstep, usually only play a couple tracks in my sets and hardly ever listen to it when I'm going out or at home. That said one thing I really do enjoy hearing is the Luvstep mixes from Philly DJs Dirty South Joe and Flufftronix. Its more on the progressive side of the genre with vocals and pretty sounding synths and less ear piercing bass and zombie dancing. Put it on when your coming home with a sexy hipster chick and see what happens.
Fluff was also kind enough to upload this one for all us DJs
Mad Decent (The label Diplo started) has a party Thursdays at Rumor. If you like your beats loud and your bass down low scope it out.